Imagine yourself in a bar having a pleasant conversation, sharing with others and having a good time. Then the table next to you gets loud - they start calling each other names and ruining the good time atmosphere that you were enjoying. The bouncer comes over and asks them to take it "out back" or "out side". If they don't do it volunarily then he escorts them "out back". Well, this is our equivalent to the back alley where these unpleasant conversations from the other message boards go. Don't come whining to me if you get your feelings hurt.